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Siblings of Jesus

Maundy Thursday
March 29, 2018

 Scripture Reading: 1 Corinthians 15:1-11

For I handed on to you as of first importance what I in turn had received: that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the scriptures, and that he was buried, and that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the scriptures, and that he appeared to Cephas, then to the twelve. Then he appeared to more than five hundred brothers and sisters at one time, most of whom are still alive, though some have died. Then he appeared to James, then to all the apostles. Last of all, as to someone untimely born, he appeared also to me. –I Corinthians 15:3-8

I do not know anything of about James, the brother of Jesus, except the few mentions by Paul. I, however, have my own fictional rendering of him. My guess is he was the brother just younger than Jesus. When Jesus set out to be an itinerant preacher, James was left to meet the needs of the family, a role that would normally have gone to the eldest son. We here no more about Joseph, James’ father after the temple trip when Jesus was 12. Joseph probably died leaving Mary to lean on James since Jesus was otherwise occupied. After the resurrection, James became the leader of the church in Jerusalem. His early family responsibilities had most likely made him a good leader. We do not know what James thought or felt being left to deal with the common needs of his family. We do not know if he followed Jesus’ teachings before his death and resurrection. A lot of people would have resented this older brother whom his mother adored.  He played a tough, tough role.

I thus have wondered about the conversation Paul reports Jesus and James had following Jesus resurrection. Were fences mended? Did James experience a new enlightenment? The meeting was consequential, or Paul would not have written about it.

What difference do Jesus’ death and resurrection make in our lives? Did everything change for us some 2000 years ago or was it just another point of interest on the timeline of history? I am writing this after hearing a young man speak about the senseless death of his twin brother shot down on his way home from a college preparatory class. The surviving twin’s life, of course, was changed forever but that is not enough for him. He was speaking at a campaign to curb gun violence so that no one else’s brother would have to go through what he and his brother did.

Time can fade memory perhaps even lessen the pain of loss, but time should never decrease our resolve to carry out Jesus’ mission in our lives today. My guess is that was part of James and Jesus’ discussion after his resurrection. My guess is that is why James used the leadership skills he had honed growing up in a single parent home to make his brother’s vision a reality. We are called to do the same.

Prayer: Lord, help us to be our brothers and our sisters’ keepers as we work for justice and a world ruled by love. Amen.

All scriptures are quoted from the New Revised Standard Version Bible: Anglicized Edition, copyright 1989, 1995, Division of Christian Education of the National Council of Churches of Christ in the United States of America. Used by permission. All rights are reserved.

Unity

Brothers and sistersEastertide May 6, 2015

Scripture Reading: Psalm 133

How very good and pleasant it is
when kindred live together in unity!

It is like the precious oil on the head,

running down upon the beard,
on the beard of Aaron,
running down over the collar of his robes.

It is like the dew of Hermon,
   which falls on the mountains of Zion.
For there the Lord ordained his blessing,
   life for evermore.

The first definition Merriam Webster list for kindred is a natural grouping*. While a family is a natural grouping, I suppose, I have always considered the word to mean blood relative, which is listed in Merriam Webster under the word archaic. The Hebrew treats it as brother** but then in Hebrew the word brother connotes a broader spectrum than a blood relative also. As we have followed Jesus command to take his message to the ends of the earth our natural grouping of followers of Christ has grown and still there are others to be added.

Perhaps the Psalmist is celebrating when actual, blood brothers and sisters get along. It is a good place to start. There is something very special about siblings. We know each other about as well as any people can know each other. We know about the times of joy and achievement, about the times of shame and despair of each other from earliest childhood. Brothers and sisters are the training camp for life where we learn to get along with each other while learning to stand up for ourselves. It is indeed pleasant when siblings get along.

Today is a good day to remember the best things about being brothers and sisters by blood or in Christ and to celebrate the joy of unity which can be very fragile.

Prayer: God who created us, made us each the persons we are becoming, we thank you for our brothers and sisters in life and in Christ and pray that our relationships can foster unity among all peoples by being a shining example of it. Make us whole, make us one. Amen.

*http://unabridged.merriam-webster.com/unabridged/kindred

**http://biblehub.com/hebrew/251.htm

All scriptures are quoted from the New Revised Standard Version Bible: Anglicized Edition, copyright 1989, 1995, Division of Christian Education of the National Council of Churches of Christ in the United States of American. Used by permission. All rights reserved.