Tag Archives: Loving the Other

God’s Love

Eastertide
April 22, 2018

Scripture Reading: John 10:11-18

I have other sheep that do not belong to this fold. I must bring them also, and they will listen to my voice. So there will be one flock, one shepherd. For this reason the Father loves me, because I lay down my life in order to take it up again. No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord. I have power to lay it down, and I have power to take it up again. I have received this command from my Father.’ –John 10:16-18

The sheep that do not belong to this fold is most likely a reference to Gentiles, people who were not Jews, people who were not of the original covenant perhaps, people who were the other. Who are our Gentiles today? Who do we not accept as included in the love of God that we value so very much?

We leave a door slightly ajar for people not like us who make every attempt to be like us, worship like else, share our values, maybe even look like us. We are less inclusive of those who may love the Lord but do not meet our criteria of acceptance.

There are no doors, bars, walls, or borders in the Kingdom of God. All are welcomed just as they are and as they grow in their relationship with God whether they fit our mold or not. We are called to be one by the all-powerful God and Jesus Christ drew the assignment to bring us together even if it killed him.

Even though Jesus died on the cross, he arose and lives today to guide and direct us in the formation of a world ruled by his love. The thing about God’s love is it grows exponentially when we give it away. We are blessed by loving the other whoever they may be.

O Love that wilt not let me go,
I rest my weary soul in thee;
I give thee back the life I owe,
That in thine ocean depths its flow
May richer, fuller be*.

Prayer: Thank you for loving me despite my failures to love all your other children. Forgive me and grant me the wisdom and the nature to love like you. Amen.

*First verse of O Love that Wilt Not Let Me Go by George Matheson, See at http://www.hymntime.com/tch/htm/o/l/t/oltwnlmg.htm

All scriptures are quoted from the New Revised Standard Version Bible: Anglicized Edition, copyright 1989, 1995, Division of Christian Education of the National Council of Churches of Christ in the United States of America. Used by permission. All rights are reserved.

 

Mission Oriented

Ordinary Time
February 2, 2018

Scripture Reading: 1 Corinthians 9:15-23

For though I am free with respect to all, I have made myself a slave to all, so that I might win more of them. To the Jews I became as a Jew, in order to win Jews. To those under the law I became as one under the law (though I myself am not under the law) so that I might win those under the law. To those outside the law I became as one outside the law (though I am not free from God’s law but am under Christ’s law) so that I might win those outside the law. To the weak I became weak, so that I might win the weak. I have become all things to all people, so that I might by any means save some. I do it all for the sake of the gospel, so that I may share in its blessings. –1 Corinthians 9:19-23

I began my work as a social worker in public service during the turbulent 60’s when our culture was in a state of constant and challenging change. The mini skirt was all the rage but forbidden by our dress code, and when I started, females were not allowed to wear slacks to work. When I became a supervisor, I was required to enforce the dress code. I dealt with both my bosses and staff on the issues it raised. I suggested to my superiors that wearing well-tailored pantsuits might be more acceptable to the public than mini skirts. With my staff, I posited that if the client they were serving was more concerned with the way they dressed than what they were attempting to accomplish, they could not do their job. Wearing a mini skirt while talking with a teenage girl might win a worker points for her dress. Wearing a mini skirt while working with either an older female adult or a teenage boy would be a distraction for very different reasons.

I think this is the point Paul is trying to make in the above scripture. If anything we are doing or not doing is diverting attention from our intentions of doing God’s work, we need to be cognizant of it and make appropriate adjustments to it. When I toured Mosques on my trip to Turkey a few years ago, I wore a scarf and removed my shoes before entering. If we offend someone before we even are introduced, true dialogue will be impossible.

Prayer: Lord, help us prioritize our behavior to reflect your love for the other in all ways. Amen.

All scriptures are quoted from the New Revised Standard Version Bible: Anglicized Edition, copyright 1989, 1995, Division of Christian Education of the National Council of Churches of Christ in the United States of America. Used by permission. All rights are reserved.